Silver’s Book Reviews – “The Mystery of the Solar Wind,” by Lyz Russo

Silver’s Book Reviews – “The Mystery of the Solar Wind,” by Lyz Russo


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Originally posted on Silver Threading:

  • Title: The Mystery of the Solar Wind
  • Author: Lyz Russo
  • File Size: 1570 KB
  • Print Length: 430 pages
  • Page Numbers Source ISBN: 062046593X
  • Publisher: P’kaboo Publishing (Owned by the author)
  • Publication Date: August 18, 2015
  • Sold by: Amazon Digital Services, Inc.
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B0145T724I
  • Formats: Paperback and Kindle
  • Genres: Fiction, Romance, Futuristic Fiction, Mystery

*The author provided me with a copy of the book in exchange for an honest review which follows*

In the year 2116 the Unicate, a conglomerate formed from all the governments in the world, have stopped the wars that ravaged the earth. Peace now reigns supreme – except on the oceans, where Captain Radomiur Lascek and his band of pirates sail upon his ship, the Solar Wind. This unruly band of misfits travel the high seas, seeking out outlaws and fugitives, all the while steering clear of the Unicate and their associates.

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That strong-willed child


I’ll leave you to read the original article, but here’s the jist:

  • If you have a strong-willed child, good!
  • Never try to force her to obey you.
  • Make “deals” by giving “choices” even about non-negotiable things (example: “Ok, do you want to go to the shops now or in 10 minutes?”)
  • “Enforce” routines (how are you supposed to do this without demanding your child obeys you?)
  • Never enter a power-struggle – that’s lowering yourself to your child’s level

and so forth and so on.

I don’t want to be funny but I seriously have to wonder whether the Dr who has written this “advice” even has a weak-willed child of her own!

“Obedience leads to holocaust”.  No.  Politics led to that.  Not obedience.  If you have the “choice” of going to the front and fighting or being executed as a traitor (and they were merciless with their death penalty for deserters), you soon make the “obedient choice”.  It’s called trying to stay alive. It has nothing more to do with morality, only with terror.  And it is most certainly not a result of any kind of faulty parenting.  Some people shouldn’t divert into politics with their “parenting” articles.

Obedience leads to, for instance, obeying laws you don’t necessarily understand.  Like, in the case of a real primitive, why I shouldn’t skip that red traffic light.  It’s so inconvenient to have to wait at the light and I want to make my own decisions.  Why should I obey when I disagree?

Let’s look at this on various levels.

Toddler, tantrum age:  “Mommy, want chocky.”

Mother: “No. You see, Annie, chocolate will upset your tummy and you haven’t had supper yet.”

Toddler:  “Want chocky NOW!”  (raised voice; surprised glances from fellow shoppers.)

Mom (negotiates) : “No, Annie, not now.  Later.  If you are good now, you can have TWO chockies later on.  AFTER supper.”

Todler (screams) : “Want chocky!  Waaaaaahhhh!!”

Mother (mortified because people are looking and she wants her child to make her own choices) : “Alright, Annie, just this once.  But you must promise to eat your supper.”

Toddler (continues screaming until chocky is safely in her hand being munched).

What has toddler learnt?  Mommy will back down if I scream loudly enough, and if enough other people will be around.

Sorry, Dr Whatnot, but a toddler must NEVER win the tantrum age. The ones who do, turn into prime manipulators for life.  To unleash such a horror upon humanity means you’ve failed your job – to raise them well.

Another example:  School-aged kid.

Mom:  “Time to start your homework.”

Daughter (idles around and doesn’t get started.)

Mom:  “If you do your homework now, there will be a treat later.”

(EPIC FAIL already.  Daughter hears:  “If”.  Learns:  Doing homework is negotiable.  Natural result:  Daughter doesn’t bother getting started on homework just for some nondescript vague promise of “treats later”.  Treats?  Seriously?  For what?  For doing what you’re supposed to?  Give me a break!)

Third example:  Teenager.

Mom:  “Annie, where are you going?”

A:  “Out.”

Mom:  “Can you tell me where you will be?”

A:  “With my friends.”

Mom:  “You don’t mean that Clarence and Jim?”

A:  “Mom, do you ever hear me talk about any other friends?  Duh!”

Mom:  “I don’t like Jim, he is on drugs.”

A: “Mom, don’t be so judgmental.  Everyone is on drugs these days.”

Mom:  (wanting teenager to make her own choices, this is a principle) :  “Alright, you know where to draw the line.  Have you studied for that test tomorrow?”

A:  “No.”

Mom:  “Aren’t you going to study?”

A:  “Mom, who ever studies for a test these days?  Don’t be so old-fashioned!”  (leaves)

Mom: “I hope she is not on drugs…”

(FAIL, Mom, of course she is.  You allowed her to get away with everything, always.  You didn’t teach her right from wrong, only “feel-good” from “don’t-wanna”.  What do you expect?)

Own choice kid:  “Mom, I don’t want to do my math homework.”

Own choice mom:  “That’s alright, Johnny, I’ll write a note to the teacher.”

Excuse me?

Dear Dr, if you have a strong-willed child you have an absolute duty to her and everyone around her to make her learn to be obedient!  That is, unless you are really meaning to raise a manipulating, self-obsessed, narcissistic crook with no moral compass whatsoever.  And I don’t even say “moral” in the religious sense; only in the law-abiding sense of the word.

“I’ll make my own choices and drive on the opposite side of the highway today.”  – “I’ll make my own choices and not pay my taxes.” – “I’ll make my own choices and put a bullet into my neighbour’s dog because his barking irritates me.”  – “I’ll make my own choices and drag you out of your car and beat you up because you didn’t immediately move over to the left-hand lane when I wanted to overtake you.  No matter that you were already at the speed limit and I wanted to go even faster; I make my own choices about this.”


The Dr needs to understand first and foremost that a child is not an adult.  The psyche of a child goes through various phases, most of which are typified by self-interest.  The understanding grows as a child grows; but you cannot reason with a child (or even adolescent) the same as with an adult.  Heck, you can’t even reason with a lot of adults as though they were adults.

A strong-willed child will always try to push the boundaries.  Not setting any boundaries, making everything “negotiable” because you believe in your child’s mythical “inner compass” (that it is your job to instill into him) will result in chaos.  Even making exceptions to otherwise inflexible rules can throw a willful child; “why am I allowed to watch TV before having done my homework today?  Maybe Mommy has changed her mind about that rule?  I’ll do it again tomorrow!”  And tomorrow Mommy will have twice the fight trying to reestablish an established rule.

Yes, having a willful child is good – but a humongous parenting challenge, as you are tasked with turning that narcissistic little powerhouse into a strong-minded, honest, upright and caring individual (without losing your mind in the process).  Don’t worry about her getting ahead in life – worry about how many people’s heads she’ll step on to get there!

Ok, I just have to turn one of these scenes around for you:

Toddler in shop:  “Want chocky!”

Mother:  “No.”

Toddler:  “WANT CHOCKY!!”

Mother. “No!”

Toddler:  “Chockyyyy!!!!  Waaaaaahhhhh!!!”  (wails loudly.)

Mother:  “No ways!”  (thinks: Kid, I said ‘no’, which part of that don’t you understand?)

Shoppers:  (stare)

Mother (laughs, shrugs) :  “Sorry, folks… you know:  Tantrum age.”

Toddler (quietens down in shock).  This is not made up.  This is precisely what happened.  And there is no need for you, young mother, to be embarrassed about not giving in to your child in tantrum age.  Anyway, those other shoppers are strangers.  What do you care about more, their opinion – or having a well-raised child?

The reader will note that no toddlers were harmed in the writing of the above passage.

….gipsika over.  And out.  Like a candle.

Endangered species, South Africa


Riverine rabbit – note the huge ears


The riverine rabbit (Bunolagus monticularis), also known as the bushman rabbit or bushman hare, is one of the most endangered mammals in the world, with only around 250 living adults. This rabbit has an extremely limited distribution area, found only in the central and southern regions of the Karoo Desert of South Africa‘s Cape Province. It is the only member of the genus Bunolagus.